A sunny day. I saw one quote from a writer that I liked his work. It's good and I agree. Just it. This is what the quote looks like :
"Who are we to be able to judge the standards of other people's happiness? If other people can be happy with things that we think are shallow, let them be. No need to bother dictating the standard of others happiness. People who are really happy don't bother themselves to arrange other people."
If you think, it's true, right? Sometimes there are many things are super trivial that make us calm, happy, can be change to the good mood until we smile for them. But more often we standardize our happiness with others. If we are not in a position or get what other people get, we are not happy and so it's how people judge to us. So sad.
Then there is one friend who notices me about it. He making it a joke. Seriously he did. And I know that he clearly disagrees. It's free for him. I don't care.
A joke that I'm naive and unrealistic. I am too caught up in the false pleasures of social media. He said that the reality was bitter and painful and it was better for me to wallow with this apparent pleasure than to feel that bitter reality.
Then I think, what the hell about you dude? What is the correlation?
I'm just sorry. That almost 100% quote is true he doesn't agree. Maybe his life isn't happy and is very dependent on the rules or perceptions of others.
For a moment I couldn't think because it was so shocked that someone like that. Slowly I struggled with my thoughts, I began to decide to understand. I think it's gonna be the wise thought.
Because if I notice him too. Then, what is the difference between me and him? I don't fight with the stupid. Got it?
I understand that maybe life is too hard. Maybe he has struggled or maybe is still struggling to live in the shadow of the rules or stigmas of others. Keep going to the hell, I'll always support you, as always.
I just want to tell this funny story like that. But let me make a defense. And this is real!
- I am not a social media addict. You can check mine. I live in fuckin real life.
- I never said that the real life is a sweet. Because ..
- My real life isn't as you the loser think. Not easy at all.
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